19 May Crossroads – moving forward or repeating the same stuff
Are you moving forward toward the life you want … or are you caught up in your attachment protests?
Sometimes in our healing journey, we dive in deep. Sometimes we pull back and avoid the process entirely. ‘Course there are all kinds of variations in between as we remap our history and move through the Healing Spiral.
We find ourselves, at times (maybe much of the time!), uncertain and doubtful that we can change the deep patterns (even though we desperately want to).
Parts come up that get angry and resentful when there are suggestions that life can be different.
Moving through the healing cycles of life’s spirals we have parts that are anchored in the past that might feel dismissive of the past pain … or dismissed by entertaining something different.
Having been present to the Healing Spiral for 45 years of healing myself, as well as being part of the cycle with thousands of clients and trainees….
there’s undoubtably a growth process in life moving us in, out and around our relational wounds: untangling the pieces, the parts, linking past and present and at times having the experience of the sun breaking through the clouds.
It’s all part of the psycho-spiritual healing cycle that actually is a spiral leading us home to ourselves.