30 Apr Comfort: What is it? Especially if you’ve never known it.
Comfort is one of those things we take for granted, unless we have no idea what it...
Author: Deirdre Fay
29 Apr Learning about Limbic Regulation from Pasha
For years I had been hearing people like Allan Shore and Diana Fosha talk about “dyadic...
25 Apr Entering a spy novel, UN style…
a colleague of mine was itching to for a more exciting life so she joined...
18 Apr In Honor of Geoffrey Packer
One of the hardest things we do in life is bear the loss of someone...
17 Apr [April 17, 2011] Shame: The Wretched Suffering of Not Being Met
During the second day of the Becoming Safely Attached workshop in Chicago I taught an introduction...
17 Apr Being [too] Careful
Last week I sent an apology note to a small group of people with whom...
27 Mar [May 27, 2011] Retiring the Old, Outdated, Negative Story
Years ago in New Orleans at an international trauma conference I had occasion to sit...
25 Mar March 25, 2011 Ezine: Changing Disruptive Patterns
In the Becoming Safely Attached Workshop that happened a couple of weeks ago in Boston...
24 Mar Karen Schachter Interviews Deirdre on Attachment
Today the psychology of eating expert Karen Schachter interviewed ne about healing attachment wounds between mothers...
24 Mar Find Your Groove! Shake Out The Winter Blahs
In talking to a client yesterday I was reminded how important movement can be in...